Angolan Men Hide Their HIV Status From Their Spouses

Maria Antónia* began to wonder about her husband's frequent trips to neighbouring South Africa, especially when he was away for 15 days without contacting her on one occasion.

She decided to investigate whether he was going to South Africa to see another woman, but discovered that he was going to get antiretroviral (ARV) medication because he was HIV positive.

Miguel André's wife died in 2001, officially from typhoid fever, but before she died she told her child's godmother that she had AIDS. She never found the courage to tell her husband, but the news spread and soon everyone in Benguela, a coastal town in central Angola, was talking about it. André was the last to find out that his wife had been HIV positive.

Stories like these are repeated time and again in Angola, but fear of a partner's reaction, fear of being abandoned, fear of discrimination, even fear of shame, are just some of the reasons that prevent people living with HIV from telling those dear to them.

Many only discover the HIV status of their partners after they have died, and then learn that they are also infected, but it is often hard to know who infected whom, or how. An estimated 2.5 percent of Angola's 16 million people are living with HIV/AIDS.

To tell or not to tell?

The debate in Angola about the role of healthcare workers in disclosing the HIV status of their patients has been heated. On the one hand there are those who believe that health workers should do their utmost to find the spouses of patients living with HIV, as was once the case with syphilis, and there should be compulsory notification. Others say doctor-patient confidentiality should be preserved at all costs.

António Coelho, executive secretary of the Network of AIDS Service Organisations (known by the Portuguese acronym Anaso), feels there should not be mandatory notification of spouses, but rather awareness-raising to enable HIV-positive patients to tell their partners.

He stressed that by law "infected persons have the duty to inform those people with whom they have or intend to have sexual relations about their serological status."

But Catarina Saldanha, executive secretary of Mwenho, an association of HIV-positive women, believes that doctors should inform their patients' spouses.

Saldanha, who is HIV positive, told IRIN/PlusNews this was to protect the partners of people living with HIV, because the network of sexual relations is often not restricted to spouses, but extends to previous partners and extra-spousal relations.

She said some doctors in Angola were already doing this: they told patients that they could continue treatment only if their spouse or partner also came to the next appointment.

The country's network of people living with HIV/AIDS is calling for a compromise. "First, the doctor should exhaust every possibility of changing the infected person's behaviour. If this doesn't work, the doctor should make his position clear regarding intentional infection - that it is a crime punishable by law," said Noé Mateus, the network's executive secretary.

"But confidentiality can and should be discarded as soon as the physician realises that the infected person's behaviour places his or her spouse or others at risk of becoming infected."

The mysterious cassette tape

UNAIDS official Roberto Campos said confidentiality should be maintained in all instances, without exception. "People have to have the sovereignty to reveal their serological status to whomever they wish. They and they alone have this right, under any and all circumstances."

Campos stressed that because of the extremely high levels of stigma still associated with HIV/AIDS, doctors could place patients at risk of being publicly condemned by revealing their seropositivity. "Health professionals must be competent enough to give patients all the information they need to make the decision," he added.

António Feijó, the director of Hospital Esperança ("Hope" in Portuguese), a healthcare facility for HIV patients in the capital, Luanda, said doctors should encourage their patients to tell. "Notifying a patient's spouse about his or her serological status cannot be decided in an arbitrary manner ... It's immoral to treat one of them and leave the other's life at risk."

When she was 17, Suzana* married her first boyfriend. After 25 years of marriage her husband died in her arms, but she only learned that he had died of an AIDS-related illness when, during the funeral, she heard a cassette tape on which he confessed to being HIV-positive.

Her husband had given the cassette to a nephew, who thought it contained his wishes regarding his estate and it would therefore be appropriate to play the tape at the funeral.

With clearer rules covering confidentiality and HIV, the final message left by Suzana's husband could have been a message of love, or even about his estate, rather than a painful confession of his positive status.

* Not their real names

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Drink to Stupor And Still Feel Good The Next Day

The root cause of all hangovers is, of course, drinking alcohol. If you drink enough and end up with a hangover, it means you've ingested more alcohol than your body can metabolize efficiently. The toxins in alcohol build up in your body and make you feel sick. A chief culprit is a chemical called acetaldehyde. This is an alcohol by-product that research suggests may cause the worst of your hangover symptoms.

Admittedly, I binge drink two or three times per month (the version where one drinks 5+ drinks in one evening). I know this isn’t especially good for my physical well-being, but being a 28 year old male in New York City it’s a common or even conservative amount. I am not proud of this fact, but know I do it and admit that it’s not healthy. I try to drink in a way where it affects me the least. I try to not ruining the following day, by avoiding a hangover. Below are a few ways to help you do this if you don’t already have your own method.

Hangover1. My Method. An old colleague once gave me his method of hangover prevention. It always worked for him, so I tried it, and I’m a fan. You must do this before you go to sleep, but it’s easy to do. After you finish drinking alcohol, drink a sports drink or a liquid with mostly water and electrolytes. Any drink with glucose will do. My colleague always liked Gatorade. I like Glacéau Vitamin Water. Drink as much as you can without feeling too water logged. With this drink, take a pair of ibuprofen pills.

2. Eating. Eating before you drink will help slow the absorption of the alcohol. Starchy foods like bread and pasta are best for this. Drinking also causes loss of essential minerals like vitamins B & C. Eat foods to get these back. Fruit is a great solution.

3. Water. Drink lots of water before, during, and after drinking. This will prevent dehydration.

4. Know what to drink. Don’t drink drinks that hide the taste of alcohol too much. You will drink fast and too much. The exception here is fruit drinks have the vitamins you lose through alcohol. If you must drink hard liquor, get cranberry with it once to get those vitamins back.

Avoid beverages that have given you hangovers before. Pay attention to which alocohol triggers a hangover, as results vary from person to person. Red wine has a exceeding negative effect for many people.

Some says additives make a hangover worse. I’m not sure about this, but I would be willing to bet artificial added chemicals and ingredients don’t help the situation.

Side tip: Have any chemistry ambitions inside you? Start to brew your own beer! In college, I joined a beer brewing club. It’s a great way to meet people, have fun, and learn to make and drink great beer! You can save money this way too. But I bring this up because of another great reason to brew, the lower hangover effect. Homemade beer has most of the vitamins you lose when drinking! Yeast is filtered out in most macrobrews, but usually not in homebrews. This yeast is rich in B vitamins. I never had a hangover from our homebrews.Hangover

5. Pills and Medicine. Though I prefer eating because you also get the sugars and water you need from food, you can directly ingest the vitamins you are losing by drinking with supplements. Some companies also have cocktail type pills with everything you need supposedly. I tried Chasers a few times. They worked, but am not really sure if it was the pills or the fact I also took the measures I always take.

Another point worth mentioning is the choice of pain killers before or after going to bed. Although acetaminophen is one of the most popular pain killers, alcohol metabolism increases the toxic effect acetaminophen has on the liver. Go with Asprin.

I know this may sound like a public safety announcement, but I also have to mention it because of so many people I know have been affected by it in one way or another, including myself. Don’t drink and drive!

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